Understanding, Practising, and Building Softness with Your Horse Horse riding is a journey of communication, trust, and subtlety. One of the most discussed—and often misunderstood—aspects of this partnership is “contact.” Whether you’re an experienced equestrian, a riding instructor, or just passionate about horses, understanding contact can make a world of difference to your riding and your horse’s comfort. Let’s pull back the curtain on what contact really means, how to tel

Ever heard someone say, “You need more feel” ? It sounds mysterious, almost magical—but feel isn’t magic . It’s an art, supported by science. The science explains biomechanics, learning theory, and how horses respond to pressure and release. The art is knowing when to apply an aid, how much , and when to soften . That’s where experience, awareness, and empathy come in. What Is ‘Feel’? Feel is the ability to sense and respond to what your horse needs in the moment. It’s knowi

From 14–17 May, Maestro, Thor and I attended The Mindful Rider Canberra clinic — a biannual highlight made even more special as I help organise these events locally. This time, we were immersed in not one, but two consecutive 2-day intensive clinics with Ann Montgomery, and once again, the experience proved just how powerful her coaching approach truly is. A Setting Designed for Learning Our journey took us to the stunning Kalaragan Equine property near Murrumbateman, NSW. Ho

When we talk about bridle fit, most riders immediately think of the bit or the noseband. While both are important, one of the most overlooked yet influential parts of the bridle is the headpiece – and more specifically, where and how the straps are positioned and attached. The placement of the cheek pieces, noseband and throat lash can make a significant difference to your horse’s comfort, freedom of movement, and willingness to accept contact. Small design choices in a bridl

Overloaded with Courses and Conflicting Advice? We’ve all been there—one quick search for “how to improve my horse’s canter” turns into hours of scrolling through videos, blogs, and online courses. Suddenly, you’ve signed up for five different training programs, each promising miracles. The result? Confusion for you and your horse. I get it! We want to educate ourselves to be the best for our horse's and their welfare. However, it is a slippery slope to ride. We are only huma

Overuse or Underuse of Aids? What's the Perfect Balance? One of the biggest challenges riders face is knowing how much leg or rein pressure to use. Too much, and your horse may feel trapped or tense. Too little, and your horse might ignore the cue altogether. So how do you find that perfect balance? Let’s break it down. Why It’s Hard to Judge Horses are sensitive creatures, but sensitivity varies by breed, training, and temperament. Riders often compensate unconsciously—addin

The Weight Factor: Smart Buying and Training Tips When choosing a horse or planning a training program, understanding breed categories and their functional movement is essential. Horses are generally grouped into light, medium, and heavyweight breeds, each with unique biomechanics, strengths, and challenges. Lightweight Breeds Agile, quick, and naturally forward-thinking. Ideal for speed and endurance disciplines. Easier to achieve uphill balance but can be sensitive and reac

Seat First, Reins Last At Lagoballo, my training mantra is simple: seat and body aids first, reins last. This approach transforms communication with your horse into a conversation of feel, not force. When we ride from the seat and body, we create harmony—when we ride from the reins, we risk tension. Why This Matters The reins should never be your first language. They are the punctuation, not the sentence. When riders rely on reins for control, horses often brace, hollow, or l

“Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.” This phrase has followed me through many parts of my life, but nowhere does it feel more relevant—or more misunderstood—than in horse training. We often hear slow down as the antidote to rushing, tension, and confusion. And yes, rushing can absolutely create brace. But I want to open a deeper conversation around this idea: 👉 Can moving too slowly also create brace? 👉 And are we sometimes mistaking stillness and micro‑control for quality

The other day I had the loveliest brunch with some horse gal pals—good food, great company, and (of course) deep horse chat. At one point someone asked a deceptively simple question: “Do you need a bit to get collection?” What followed was a genuinely fascinating conversation, with a whole range of perspectives and experiences shared around the table. It stayed with me long after the last coffee, and I realised it was something I really wanted to write about—and hear your tho

Post-Bodyworker Return-to-Work You’ve booked the bodyworker, given your horse a couple of rest days, and now you’re ready to ride. But instead of feeling supple and balanced, your horse moves like six different drunk horses in one body. Sound familiar? Here’s why—and what to do about it. Why It Happens Bodywork releases tension and restores mobility, but it also changes how your horse feels in its own skin. Muscles that were tight are now freer, and old compensations have shi

Every horse and rider combination is unique — but progression should never be random. Equine Awareness Training is not about rushing to advanced movements or chasing milestones; it’s about building clear communication, physical understanding, and emotional security step by step. Skipping foundations doesn’t make progress faster — it makes it fragile. This pathway outlines a logical progression from basic handling to advanced ridden work, ensuring both horse and rider develop

How to Spot Hidden Tension, Why It Blocks Forward Energy, and Simple Tips to Create Awareness and Flow Ever wonder why your horse feels sluggish or resistant, even when you’re asking for forward? The culprit might not be your horse—it could be you bracing through your legs . This subtle tension can block your horse’s movement and create confusion in your aids. Let’s break down how to spot it and what to do about it. Why Leg Bracing Stops Forward Movement When you brace throug

A well-fitting saddle isn’t a luxury — it’s a welfare essential. Yet saddle fitting is often misunderstood, delayed, or treated as a one‑off event, rather than part of ongoing horse care. If you’ve ever wondered when you should book a saddle fitter , what actually happens during an appointment , or how often saddles really need checking , this guide will walk you through it — step by step. Why Saddle Fit Matters More Than You Think Your saddle is the main interface between yo

Here's to the Overthinkers and "Try Hards"... I’ll be the first to admit it: I’m an overthinker AND try-hard. Not the casual kind—the world-class, Olympic‑level kind. And while overthinking is sometimes useful in life, when it comes to training horses… well, it can turn a perfectly good ride into a mental pretzel. Over time, I’ve realised something important: horses don’t live in our heads—they live in the moment. And when we don’t, the disconnect becomes obvious. When Over

Proven Techniques for Learning Off-Horse Learning a dressage test or memorising a show jumping course can feel overwhelming—especially under competition pressure. The secret? Tailor your approach to your learning style and use proven techniques to lock it in. Let’s break it down. Step 1: Identify Your Learning Style I've written previously on learning styles when it comes to selecting a coach that matches your style —visual, auditory or kinaesthetic. In summary: Visual Learne

Why Learning with Horses is so Humbling Learning horse riding or handling often feels like a rollercoaster. You grasp a new skill, feel confident, then suddenly hit a wall where nothing seems to work. This back-and-forth between understanding and confusion can be frustrating. Yet, this experience is a natural part of the learning process. Imagine it like Newton’s pendulum, where the balls swing back and forth, gradually losing energy until they come to rest. Your progress in

Half, Light & Full Seat work with Lagoballo’s 7-Point Seat for Balance, Safety & Harmony in the Saddle Your seat is the foundation of your riding. It influences your horse’s balance, comfort, and willingness to move. Understanding when to use half seat , light seat , or full seat can transform your ride—and Lagoballo’s 7-Point Seat Concept helps you get it right every time. Why Link the 7-Point Seat? The three seat types aren’t just about lifting or lowering your pelvis—th

Riders often struggle with learning feel when riding! It is an interesting and light bulb moment if you pursue this approach (this is all part of my equine awareness training methodologies). Read on as I think I can help you get that inkling of unlocking finding/teaching the right feel ! Developing an independent seat and subtle, effective leg aids starts with understanding what feel actually means in your own body. Many riders are told to “wrap the leg on,” “guard with the

There’s something about Australian summers—humid, sticky, deceptively cloudy—that tricks you into thinking, “It’s not that hot today.” And that’s exactly when the heat can catch you off guard. I learned that the hard way. I’m usually organised when I’m at the paddock: my big water bottles, electrolytes, cooling towel—the whole routine. But for once, I forgot my usual set‑up. No large water bottles. No reminder to sip consistently. No plan for the humidity that was already si