Your Guide to Staying Safe, Calm, and Connected in the Saddle If you’ve ever found yourself in the saddle with a horse that suddenly spooks or bolts, you know that heart-in-mouth feeling all too well. While it’s a nerve-wracking experience, the secret to handling these moments lies in one powerful approach: de-escalation. Let’s explore how you can turn a tense situation into a learning opportunity for both you and your horse, keeping safety and confidence front and centre. Un

Managing, Exercising, and Caring for Your Senior Equine Mate As horses age, their needs and capabilities change, requiring a thoughtful approach to training and management. Whether your old mate is a retired champion or a beloved paddock companion, understanding how to care for and exercise an older horse is vital. This guide will help you identify what constitutes an “older” horse, recognise their limits, spot warning signs, and offer practical steps for keeping your senior

Practical Tips and Exercises for a Softer, More Connected Ride Have you ever finished a ride feeling like you’ve just done an upper-body workout, or noticed your horse chewing the bit in frustration? I sure have! Stiffness can creep up on even the most experienced riders, quietly sabotaging our connection with the horse. The good news is, with a bit of awareness and a few handy exercises, you can transform stiffness into real suppleness—making riding more comfortable for you

Reflecting on Old Riding Habits and Embracing Better Ways for Our Horses For as long as I can remember, horses have been at the heart of my life. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of connection, freedom and partnership that comes from working alongside these magnificent animals. But with every journey, there are moments that stop us in our tracks—hard realisations that challenge everything we thought we knew. Today, I want to share the toughest lesson, and an honest trut

Time to Process and Create a Calm Nervous System If you’ve ever worked with horses, you know that timing is everything. One simple yet powerful technique that’s gaining attention among horse trainers and riders is the idea of giving your horse “3 Mississippi's”—a short pause—before asking them to come back to you after a cue or correction. It sounds almost too simple, but this approach can transform your relationship with your horse. Here’s why it works. The Power of the Paus

Embarking on the journey of horse ownership is both exciting and challenging. For new horse owners, understanding how to train their horse effectively while building a solid bond is crucial. This blog post provides you with essential advice, exercises for groundwork (in-hand) and riding, and emphasizes the importance of patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. Understanding Your Horse’s Needs Before diving into training, it is important to understand your horse’s ne

A beautifully kind, fellow rider recently said to me, “You’re very dressage-focused.”  And she’s right— dressage  is at the heart of my approach. But here’s the thing: dressage literally means training  in German. It’s not just about competition (and I don't actively pursue this); it’s the original foundation for riding, developed centuries ago to create balance, harmony, and communication between horse and rider. However, the comment got me thinking... what makes a good trai

How to Keep Yourself – and Your Horse – Balanced When Riding and Turning Building on our last blog about harnessing the magic of body cues to guide your horse through a turn , today we’re diving into a vital but easily overlooked skill and advancement to enhancing your riding: staying “lifted” and avoiding the dreaded “man hole” when your horse drops its back or hollows out in a turn. This subtle art is the difference between a ride that feels smooth and connected, and one wh

Why the Shoulder-In Fixes So Many Things for Horses If you’ve spent time working on your horse’s balance and strength, you’ve probably heard about the shoulder-in . It’s one of those exercises that seems simple on the surface—but in reality, it’s a powerhouse for improving your horse’s body and mind. So why does this one movement solve so many problems? Let’s break it down. This post builds on the introduction to laterals. You can read more on this here . What Is Shoulder-In?

Understanding Tough Days, Trauma Triggers, and Why True Horsepeeps Choose Education Over Giving Up Ever had a ride where your horse feels like they’ve forgotten everything you’ve worked on? They push through the reins, hunker down, or even bolt. It’s frustrating—but it’s also normal. These are what I call “reset rides.” Why Reset Rides Happen Horses, like humans, have good and not-so-good days. Stress, past trauma, or environmental triggers can cause them to revert to old beh

Setting up for a Smooth Transition with Confidence and Clarity Switching to a bitless bridle or sidepull can be a fantastic way to improve communication and comfort for your horse—but timing and preparation are everything. So, how do you know your horse is ready? And what exercises can help set the stage for success? Signs Your Horse Is Ready Before you ditch the bit, check for these indicators, when ridden/under saddle: Softness in the poll and jaw  – Your horse should yield

Ready to Help Your Horse Find Suppleness? Lateral movements are the building blocks of advanced riding. They improve suppleness, balance, and communication between horse and rider. But for many riders, laterals feel intimidating—where do you start, and how do you know what to do with your body? Let’s break it down step by step. Why Learn Laterals in This Order Starting with simpler movements and gradually increasing complexity helps both horse and rider develop confidence and

Setting your Horse up for Success with the Right Fit and Design When it comes to riding bitless, the bridle isn’t just a piece of tack—it’s your main line of communication with your horse. A well-fitted bitless bridle can make the difference between a soft, responsive ride and a frustrating one. So, what should you look for when choosing a bitless bridle, and why does fit matter so much? Why Bitless Bridle Fit Is Different Unlike a traditional bridle, a bitless bridle transfe

Think you’re riding from your seat and legs—not just your hands? Here’s a fun way to find out! At Lagoballo , we love exercises that build independence and harmony, and this challenge will show you how well you can influence your horse using your 7-point seat . Why Try This Challenge? Riders often rely on reins more than they realise. These exercises help you: Improve balance and feel. Communicate through your seat and core. Build trust and responsiveness in your horse. Safet

Signs, Exercises, and Tips for In-Hand and Under Saddle Work Horses, just like humans, can develop tension in their ribcage and diaphragm, which can restrict movement, affect breathing, and impact overall performance. Recognising the signs of tension and knowing how to help your horse release it can make a world of difference to their comfort and athletic ability. In this post, we’ll look at how to identify tension, exercises to help your horse, and the differences between wo

How Self-Assessment Can Make You a More Mindful, Effective Rider If you're passionate about horses, you've probably spent more hours in the saddle than you care to count—only to discover, occasionally, that old habits have snuck back in. Maybe your horse in really lazy or is heavy in the contact. Don't fret! There's a refreshingly simple tool that can help you reset and ride with renewed awareness, it's what I like to call, the "horse shopping list" . This clever twist on int

How to Use Intentional Self-Assessment to Improve Your Body Mechanics in the Saddle If you’ve ever caught yourself gripping the reins too tightly or tensing your shoulders while riding, you’re not alone. Bad habits can sneak up on even the most experienced riders, often going unnoticed until they start to affect your comfort and communication with your horse. But what if there was a simple tool to help you reset those habits and ride with more awareness? Enter, what I like to

From Heavy to Harmonious: Unlocking Forward Energy Heavy breeds like Friesians, Andalusians, Gypsy Cobs, and draft crosses are stunning, powerful horses—but when it comes to uphill movements, forward thinking, and collected work, they face unique challenges. Unlike lighter breeds such as Thoroughbreds, Arabians, or Warmbloods, heavy horses are built for pulling, not lifting. This means they often carry more weight on the forehand, and even some have a forward-placed sternum,

How Do Equine Owners Fill the Gap and Why Root Cause Thinking is the Key Do you frequently find yourself unsure about how to advance or progress with your horse? Or do you sense that something is lacking in transitioning your horse from moving adequately to moving with complete ease? Or do you want to understand how to read their behaviours and patterns to enhance your connection more? (Whether this be on the ground or ridden.) Horsemanship, connection and advancement of ridi

Exploring the Pros, Cons, and Personal Approaches to Equine Training When it comes to training horses, the debate between the use of scientific methods and more intuitive, emotion-driven approaches is ongoing. While science-backed methodologies have brought about substantial improvements in safety, consistency, and welfare, they often fall short of addressing the complex emotions experienced by both horse and rider. In this blog post, we’ll examine why scientific methods in h